Surviving the Domestic Jungle

I wish kids could potty train themselves. They teach themselves how to crawl, walk, talk. How come they cant potty train on their own? I am not good with potty training. I dread it actually…especially with my middle child who has a lot of issues just using the bathroom. Once my oldest was trained, she never had an accident, which was nice. With both of my girls, I find/found that they worried about making a mess more than anything else. They both seem/seemed so uptight when training first started. The only problem with my youngest daughter is her issues with constipation and how I am going to deal with that while trying to train. My husband is constantly making comments about how she needs to potty train, and while he is right, he does nothing to help. It just annoys me. I cant even think about when I have to potty train a boy!!! I will cross that bridge when I get there I guess. For now, I am attempting to get Hailey potty trained with yet another visit to the doctor to try and figure out why she has such issues. Im beginning to wonder if it is a food allergy…..Anyway, if anyone has any tips on how to make potty training easy, please feel free to bestow your knowledge upon me!