Surviving the Domestic Jungle

The question of the day is this: Can married women keep a secret? The Answer: NO! In my opinion anyway. I think it needs to be a universal understanding amongst women that when you tell us a secret, our husbands will be the first to know. I tell my husband everything and wouldn’t have it any other way. When contemplating this topic for my blog, I asked him if he tells me all his friends secrets and he said yes, so I guess we are equally guilty. The difference is, 90% of the time, he doesn’t care about the stuff I tell him while I hang on every word he tells me! Anything he tells me about his friends, goes no further than me and anything I tell him, stays with him. We are like one person really. You tell one of us, yes the other one will know but we never let it go any further. I think that we are a pretty normal couple in that sense. I think we are pretty normal friends when it comes to that too. I know when I tell my girlfriends things, their husbands know everything I said. Im cool with that. I would never get mad at my friend for sharing something with the one person she is supposed to be able to share anything with! Women need to talk, we need to express ourselves and complain when necessary and men do the same thing just in their own way. The things my husband has told me that him and his friends talk about almost shocks me. They sound like a bunch of hens clucking in the hen house!! Isnt that what men say about us? Well, they are just as guilty if not more so! Everybody needs to vent! The only thing is no one is actually keeping what they say or hear a secret! Who cares really? My friends husband is NOT going to come up to me and say ‘so I heard this about this. Care to go into detail?’ That will NEVER happen so he can know whatever she wants to share and I could careless. If it is something I dont want any husbands to know, Ill tell my mom but then again, she will probably tell my dad who is her husband so either way, not one soul is keeping a secret!!